Getting help - or not

From a previous life, on an operational tour in the army, I recall my boss returning from a visit to Headquarters, where he was seeking support for a particular task the regiment had been given.

Looking totally frustrated, he reported that he had been offered all possible assistance - apart from any practical help.

Why is it that so often this seems to be what happens to us, as the parents of a school refuser? Reading a recent entry in the Forum, I see that this is once again the case.

Oh dear!

Mum fined because child 'refuses to go to school'

The Burton Mail reports that Kathleen Harvey appeared at Burton Magistrates’ Court to plead guilty to failing to ensure her son, XXXX, regularly attends school.

Magistrate, Tony Winterton, said: “Your son’s records are very poor. It is your responsibility to make sure he goes and you’re going to have to try something else to get him to go.

“We are sentencing you for a small period but you will probably find yourself back before the courts because he hasn’t been back to school once since you were handed the fixed penalty notice.”

Harvey was handed a £100 fine and made to pay £50 in costs and a £15 victim surcharge fee.

This seems on the surface as an example of a family in real need of help, and just being punished for their situation.

Another concern is with the Burton Mail, which published the boys name (deleted above)?

http://www.burtonmail.co.uk/News/Mumfined-because-child-refuses-to-go-to-school-29082011.htm

You can read the article here:

Hosting problems

Apologies all around to those who were unable to find the site today.

I changed my hosting arrangements and lost some of the functionality whilst this was in progress.

Hopefully, we are back up and running again now.

Simon

More resources (US based)

I am aware that lots of resources are being shared in the Forum. Here are a few that I have come across recently:

www.ocdchicago.org
OCD Chicago serves adults and children with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, their families, and the professionals who treat them. The organization also works to boost public awareness of OCD.

www.Aboutourkids.org
A service of New York University, Child Study Institute, provides information on a wide range of children's mental health issues.

www.academyofct.org
The Academy of Cognitive Therapy provides information and referrals for therapists in your area.

www.adaa.org
Anxiety Disorders Association of America website provides information and referrals for therapists in your area.

www.aabt.org
The Association for the Advancement of Behavior Therapy provides information and referrals for therapists in your area.

www.ocfoundation.org
The Obsessive Compulsive Foundation provides information and referrals for therapists in your area.

www.latitudes.org
Association for Comprehensive Neurotherapy provides information about alternative and complementary treatment for Autism, Tourettes and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.

www.nasponline.org
National Association of School Psychologists website offers excellent crisis intervention resources in multiple languages on such topics as war, terrorism, suicide.

www.nih.gov
National Institute of Health site offers links to information about Pediatric Autoimmune Disorder Associated with Strep (PANDAS).

www.jjsplace.org
An interactive site about Obsessive Compulsive Disorder for kids, parents, and therapists.

Anxiety Action - giving support by email.

Anxiety Action was founded 21 years ago with the help of some very dedicated volunteers. They have helped many people suffering from Anxiety, be it Panic Attacks, Agoraphobia, Social Phobia or free floating Anxiety. A non profit making voluntary organisation, Anxiety Action has helped many people towards recovery.

Support is provided via email, with one to one contact, helping towards recovery.

Support for Learners - Scotland

All children and young people from birth-25 are entitled to support with their education, wherever they learn. Some children need support throughout their education linked to disability or health needs, social or emotional factors. Others may need help at a specific time, for a short period or a number of years. It doesn’t mean they lack skills and abilities.

A new leaflet has been issued by the Scottish Government outlining the support learners are entitled to.

Factfile - Supporting learners

Publish Post

Is there such a thing as school phobia? - BBC

Writing in the BBC Magazine, Finlo Rohrer asks 'Is there such a thing as school phobia?'

Most adults can remember days when they vehemently didn't want to go to school, he writes.

There would be protestations of illness, and of the danger of passing on an unpleasant disease, before the eventual acceptance that the journey into school was inevitable.

So many might react with scepticism to the idea that there is such a thing as "school phobia".

But, says Nigel Blagg, author of School Phobia and Its Treatment, (Available in our Book Store) it is a condition that has been recognised since the 1960s.

"They will experience extreme anxiety. They are off school, typically with their parents' knowledge and approval. And they often have symptoms like tummy aches, head aches and nausea. Some of them suffer severely with depression.

"Any attempts to get them to school, when they are at their worst can lead to quite extreme behaviour - temper tantrums, screaming, kicking. It is very distressing for the adults."

Ann Newstead, a spokesperson for the home tuition charity Education Otherwise, says school phobia is a "very real condition".

"I see a lot of families where they are in that situation - you only have to meet the children and families to see that it's not a made up condition. It's genuine. Not sending your child to school is something parents can be prosecuted for. You don't risk prosecution lightly."

"You wouldn't dream of forcing an adult to engage in an environment that wasn't beneficial to them. So why do we think it's ok to treat children in this way?"

You can read the full article here>>>